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We Didn't Start The Fire

by Ben Reinking
Dec 15, 2024
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Do any of the following sound familiar?

  • You haven’t finished your holiday shopping 🛍️
  • Your Epic inbasket is overflowing with unfinished notes and patient calls 📋📞
  • The world feels like it's on fire 🌍🔥
  • The kids need breakfast 🥣
  • The price of eggs remains high 🥚💰
  • And your paycheck is shrinking due to decreasing reimbursements 📉

 

It’s a lot, isn’t it? 😓

 

In the midst of all this chaos, how do you care for yourself, your family, and continue being the physician you aspire to be? 🩺❤️

 

It starts with identifying what you can control. 💡

 

This week’s blog, Navigating Chaos: A Physician’s Guide to Maintaining Wellness dives into these challenges and offers strategies to manage them effectively. We’ll explore how to prioritize self-care, set boundaries, and focus on what truly matters. 🧘‍♂️✨

 

🗨️ As the saying goes: 

 

"Ships don’t sink because of the water around them. Ships sink because of the water that gets in them." 🚢💧  

 

Read The Blog 

 

You can’t control most of the chaos around you. If you try, you’ll sink. It’s crucial to discern what to focus on and what to let go.

 

Coach's Corner 📝

Sometimes it is hard to know what you can and should focus on and what you should let go of. Here is a simple exercise to identify things within your control and steps you can take to remain calm in the chaos that you can’t control.

  • Identify What You Can Control                                                             
    • Task: Write down three things in your life that you can control and three things that you cannot.  
    •  Example:
      • Can Control:Your reactions, attitudes, and self-care practices.
      • Cannot Control: Others' behaviors, external economic factors, and unexpected events
  • Practical Tips for Calm
    • Task:List three strategies you can implement to stay calm amidst the chaos.  
    • Examples:
      • Deep Breathing: 5 minutes each morning to practice deep breathing exercises.  
      • Taking Breaks: Schedule short breaks during your day to step away and recharge.  
      • Setting Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries, such as not checking work emails after a certain time.

 

Peace is not the absence of chaos or conflict, but rather finding yourself in the midst of that chaos and remaining calm in your heart.


If you’d like more personalized support in managing the demands of your profession and life, consider booking a complimentary coaching consultation. Let’s work together to help you thrive both personally and professionally! 📅💬 

Free Coaching Consultation - Ben Reinking

 

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Wishing you a peaceful and productive week ahead! 🌟

Ben

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