Mastery and Wellness: Thriving in Medicine
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Making Gratitude Stick: Turning Relief Into Real Change
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When you pause and feel grateful in the middle of a hard day, something real happens. Your nervous system settles. Your chest loosens. You feel a little less alone. That short-term effect matters.
But I want more for you than momentary relief.
Long-term gratitude practice, the kind you repeat,...
by Ben Reinking â
Nov 15, 2025
gratitude
physician coaching
Gratitude in Practice: Three Ways to Rewire Your Mind and Strengthen Meaning
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Last week, I touch on the science of gratitude. (Explore more deeply in this blog). Â Practicing gratitude literally reshapes your brain and lowers stress. This week, weâre putting that science into practice.
Gratitude is often misunderstood as a soft emotion, but in truth, itâs one of the most...
by Ben Reinking â
Nov 08, 2025
gratitude
physician coaching
More Than a Feeling: The Neuroscience of Gratitude and How It Transforms the Way We See the World
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When I first started exploring gratitude, I wasnât looking for inspiration, I was looking for evidence. Like many physicians, I was tired, skeptical, and searching for something that actually worked. Gratitude, I thought, sounded nice in theory, but how could it possibly make a difference when...
by Ben Reinking â
Nov 01, 2025
gratitude
neuroscience
physician coaching
The Surprising Science Behind Fear
Why Fear Might Be Your Best Compass
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It Starts Early
Plug in a night light if youâre scared of the dark.
Run away.
Cover your eyes during the scary part of the movie.
If you admit to fear, youâre called a chicken or a scaredy-cat.
As children, weâre taught to ignore fear, to push it away, and n...
by Ben Reinking â
Oct 26, 2025
career advice
fear
growth
personal development
physician careers
physician coaching
The Last Rose of Fall: Why Your Quieter Season Might Be Exactly What You Need
I almost missed it.
On a walk through the yard, I noticed several deep red blooms on our climbing rose alongside a few new buds. Itâs a robust grower, reliable all summer. I celebrate the first bloom of spring, but as the months roll on, I stop noticing them as much. That deep red bloom in mid-O...
by Ben Reinking â
Oct 19, 2025
careers
medical careers
physician coaching
The Fat Bear Pause
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I was obsessed with Fat Bear Week. Chunk, picture below, was the 1200 lb 2025 champion.
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If you're not familiar with it, there's a wildlife camera positioned at Brooks Falls in Katmai National Park, Alaska, that films brown bears feasting on salmon during their summer run. What started as a l...
by Ben Reinking â
Oct 04, 2025
fat bear week
physician coaching
rest
self care
The Barriers We Build (and why it is time to take them down)
I had two very different experiences this week that got me thinking about something we all struggle with but rarely name: the invisible barriers we construct in our own lives.
Experience 1: The Resource Allocation Meeting
I sat through yet another meeting about resource allocation. We desperately...
by Ben Reinking â
Sep 07, 2025
medical careers
physician coaching
physician mindset
The Physicianâs Pivot
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Remember those late nights in the library during pre-med? The birthday parties missed during residency? The first holiday you spent in the hospital instead of with family?
âItâll all be worth it whenâŚâ â how many times did you use that phrase (or something similar) to push through?
As physicia...
by Ben Reinking â
Jul 26, 2025
physician career change
physician coaching
I'll Be Happy When...
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You've paid off your student loans, you have some financial cushion, and your job is secure.
In short, you have reached the point when your younger self thought, "I'll be happy when..."
The problem? Something is missing.
You are missing family dinners, spend more time charting than with patien...
by Ben Reinking â
Jul 12, 2025
physician careers
physician coaching
Things My Dad Taught Me
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Iâm writing this to you on Fatherâs Day, with my dad on my mind.
Iâve always known I am lucky to have him. Heâs kind, thoughtful, quick with a joke, and dedicated to our family. Heâs been a quiet, steady role model my whole life.
Iâm the oldest of seven kids. My parents supported all of us thr...
by Ben Reinking â
Jun 15, 2025
father's day
medical careers
physician coaching
đžMy Unexpected Teacher
What my puppy taught me about being a better physican
If youâve been feeling stuck, creatively numb, or unsure about whatâs next, this week's newsletter and blog might be exactly what you need to remember who you are beyond the white coat.
After losing two beloved dogs, my family hesitated to br...
by Ben Reinking â
Jun 08, 2025
finding meaning
joy in medicine
physician coaching
Youâre Not Meant to Do This Alone
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Medicine is funny. We became doctors largely because of individual success but to succeed as a physician, teamwork is critical.
Despite working on a team, many physician are lonely.
How often have you felt like youâre carrying the weight of your patients, your team, or even your entire departm...
by Ben Reinking â
May 31, 2025
leadership
physician coaching